In this episode, Wendy and Terry explain what revenge behaviors are and how to spot them in our culture, ourselves, and our children. Listeners will learn how to help their children & themselves be “at choice” with how they handle hurt feelings by equipping themselves with tools to navigate life from a place of peace / self-control as opposed to revenge. This important paradigm shift is desperately needed in our world today, and can begin at home.
Three Ways to Handle Revenge Behaviors with Integrity:
- Step to the side and don’t hurt back
- Figure out why our kids are feeling hurt
- Repair the relationship and commit to change
More about what Wendy & Terry Chat about in this episode:
- How parents can tell what type of misbehavior their child is displaying based on how they feel in the moment
- How the cycle of revenge behavior starts, getting to its root, and techniques to reduce it
- Understanding that power struggles often lead to revenge behaviors and the four ways to to reduce power struggles in the first place
- Logical steps to implement when revenge behaviors occur
- The concept that the road to behavior change starts with acknowledging and feeling our emotions
- Seeing revenge in our lives as an opportunity to build up empathy, compassion, and emotional literacy
Mentioned in this Episode:
- Fresh Start Family Online
- The Bonfire Membership Program
- Fresh Start Family’s Positive Parenting Course – The Foundations Course
- “The Little Soul and the Sun” book by Neale Donald Walsch
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